
Originally Posted by
its-techs
Your concern about my circle of friends is touching, but I will relieve you of that burden right now; it's not your problem. More poignantly however, on a forum site filled with f-bombs, insults to intelligence, and a smörgåsbord of other types of personal negative adjectives, you home in on the two words that disturbed you more than anything else. It's a tell; that the content of the message is driving home, even to the self-decievers. So it's alot like Linus Torvalds quipped recently in his recent Aaltos University interview. Matter of fact, my outlook on this can be summed up pretty exactly by Torvald's response to a questioner from the audience.
"I like that people take me seriously, but at the same time, I refuse to then let that mean that I don't say what I mean. I mean, I've always wanted to be very honest in my statements, I use strong language on the internet, to the point where some people feel offended, and that's their problem."
".....But I also actually believe that when you work with alot of people, it's better to be really open about your feelings so that you don't have people who buy me steak misread you. Uh, I've had that happen; I have literally had developers who were working on things that I didn't really like, but I didn't shut down early enough; they worked on it for a long time; they felt that it was ready, they submitted it to me, ah, and I said no this is horrible; because at that point I had to make a decision. And ah, in at least one of those cases I had some other friends basically email me later and saying, the guy is suicidal."